Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Mommy of Two

Being a Mommy is much harder than I ever imagined.  It's also much more fulfilling than I ever imagined.  I struggle most days.  I feel guilty many times throughout the day.  Loving our two kids is easy but meeting all of their needs at the same time isn't.  My friend SS shared an article called Transitional mom: becoming a mother of two.  Thanks so much for sharing, SS!  I feel like I wrote this article.  It's always comforting to know other people feel the same way.  I know I have friends who probably also feel this way, but we just don't take the time to share it.   
I had a wonderful "mommy moment" the other day.  Mara was quietly playing with blocks in the kitchen while I was making supper, and the next thing I know Micah is running around the island with a block and Mara was running after him screaming.  I got them settled back down, and the same thing happened again and again.  After about the third time, I finally realized he was doing it on purpose.  I have to admit I did sit back and chuckle.  He'd grab a block and take off just as fast as he could, and she'd chase him around the island until she caught him.  The looks on their faces were priceless.  Micah has definitely has perfected the art of bugging his sister. 
The best part was a few minutes later.  They both sat down and were quietly playing side by side.  Their conversation went a little like this.
Mara:  "That's a blue block, Micah!"
Micah:  "Blue block!"
Mara:  "It's a square."
Micah:  "Square."
The moment was perfect for this momma.  It made me appreciate how close they are in age.  We have given two kids a gift no one else could give - each other.  I am filled with the love that's in our home.  Thank you God for our two blessings.
 
 


Tuesday, July 23, 2013

JIA

     As many of you know, Mara has been having some problems with her knees.  She woke up on the morning of May 30th limping with a swollen knee.  I took her to the pediatrician that morning, and we spent four hours in the clinic.  We saw an orthopedic pediatrician, and he aspirated her knee.  They also took an x-ray and did some blood work.  We were then referred to a pediatric rheumatologist in Iowa City. 
     Today met with the pediatric rheumatologist at the University of Iowa Children's Hospital.  Mara was diagnosed with juvenile idiopathic arthritis (JIA) based on her symptoms.  She has been complaining of pain in both knees fairly frequently the last couple of weeks.  She has fluid in both knees, they are both warm, and she has some restricted movement in both of them.  She has "cartilage knobs" on the inside of her knees which is irreversible.  However, we will hopefully get the disorder under control, and she should "grow into" her large knees within two years.  So hopefully they'll become less noticeable. 
     Untreated, she could have permanent joint damage, muscle loss, more cartilage growth in the wrong areas, vision problems, and other things.  We have two options for treatment:  knee injections or an oral medication.  The doctor highly recommended the knee injections, and we feel most comfortable with the injections also.  We can get the injections in Des Moines or Iowa City, but we are currently planning on going to Iowa City.  The goal is for the injections to last 4 months, but the doctor has seen them last anywhere from 6 weeks to 4 years.  The goal of the injection is to put the JIA into remission.  We should get an injection appointment sometime this week, and her first injection will hopefully happen within a couple of weeks. 
     There are no restrictions or limits for physical activities.  We just continue on with our normal routine as best as possible.  I am going to check with the doctor about the benefits of physical therapy.  We were a little overwhelmed today and forgot to ask about that.  Best case scenario would be that she'd outgrow it sometime during childhood but every kid is different.  I haven't done much research yet because I told myself I wasn't going to read too much until we got a diagnosis.  So I will have to keep you posted! 
     Mara did well today.  It took a lot for her to be brave to let the doctor, intern and nurse all poke around.  She got to put on some special numbing lotion before her blood was drawn which she thought was pretty fun, and she was proud of the pink tape she got to wear afterwards.  She also did her first urine sample which was a new experience!
We told Mara we'd get some ice cream to celebrate her bravery, but I was really getting ice cream for myself because I was emotionally drained.  I did feel much better afterwards!  Ice cream is amazing.
     Micah was a bit crazy after sitting in contained areas for a couple of hours.  We had to wait 30 minutes for Mara's numbing lotion to set in, so we camped out by the large windows and watching this scene.  He was sure entertained by all of the construction going on outside!  Actually, we were ALL entertained by this.  They are building a new children's hospital, and they have this huge hole dug.  We watched as the diggers filled up dump truck after dump truck removing soil.  This picture doesn't do it justice because this whole was huge and the driveway out was SO steep! 

     Thanks so much for all of your prayers.  We really appreciate it.  As some of you know, I have been praying for a miracle and complete healing.  I know my plans are not always the same as God's will, so I have also been preparing myself for different news.  I have been praying that if Mara does have some type of condition that symptoms would show up before our first appointment, so that we could get an accurate diagnosis and quick treatment.  We are doing our best to embrace this new journey.  Thanks in advance for all of your support!

Sunday, July 21, 2013

Summer Vacation

Let's roll the windows down, turn the radio up, let the wind blow through our hair!  We're on vacation!
 
Fourth of July weekend isn't a good time to head to the zoo.  The lines were ridiculous.  We thought we'd try to buy tickets on our phone, but after the 15 minute registering process the server was busy with everyone else trying to do the same thing.  But you can see that the kids were waiting very patiently in the stroller for their daddy to attempt to buy tickets on his phone.  We ended up having to get in line anyway. 
 
 
Ice cream for lunch!
 
Authentic Mexican for dinner, yum!
 
Relaxing in the water at the hotel.
 
 
 

Thursday, July 18, 2013

County Fair

I can't believe it's already county fair time!  The summer is just zooming by. 
 
 

Our kids never get bored watching animals.  Oh how we'd all love to live on a farm.  Maybe someday.
Watching the pig show with Big C and Little C.  Lance would love for our kids to show animals.  I think they may just love it.
Bucking bulls and a bag of popcorn.  A great ending to a summer night.

Monday, July 15, 2013

Face Time

Face Time is our favorite latest app for the iPad.  Lance has been gone overnight for work off and on the last few weeks, so we've been doing some Face Time at night with him.  The kids love it!  They were especially excited on this night because he was "sharing" a chocolate chip cookie with them through the iPad.  Sometimes during the day Mara will ask to call Daddy on the iPad to see if he's having a cookie.  Love technology.
 

We Have Cooties!

Cooties brings back childhood memories.....good ones, not ones of bugs.  My grandma and I used to play cooties with paper and dice.  Each number rolled represented a part of the cootie, and whoever completed their cootie first won the game.  The kids and I picked up the game of Cooties at a garage sale the other day.  This version has plastic bug pieces.  Probably requires much less creativity, so I'll have to show them the version I grew up with when they're old enough to draw bugs.  Thanks for the fun memories, Grandma!

Monday, July 8, 2013

4th of July

 We started celebrating the 4th of July a week early.  We headed to my mom's hometown for their western days celebration.
Waiting for the parade to start.  Leave it to the boys to find some dirt to play in.  Leave it to the only girl to get the dirtiest. 
This girl doesn't win the award for collecting the most candy, but she does win the award for eating the most candy during the parade!
After he got this bag of popcorn, he didn't care about the parade or the candy!
And then off to the rodeo!
And fireworks afterwards!
Math lesson of the day:  red and blue M&M patterns!
 
And then off to my hometown community for another parade.
 
 
Grandpa and Grandma were in the parade!
And a picnic and play time with cousins.
 
 
 
 
 
Cousin T
 
After we got rested up, we headed to the carnival.
 
 
 
First taste of cotton candy.  The bag was empty on the way home.
We ended the night eating popcorn under the fireworks.